If you like...

Last night I cooked.  I don't cook often. I have so many other responsibilities and my time is spread so short it's just hard to do.  Last night I cooked an Asian dish from scratch and it was soooo good.  While I was eating it I started having this fantasy how I should cook an entire Asian meal for my family.  I started planing the menu in my head and then I realized my wife hates Asian food and she always discouraged the kids from eating it with me so no one would like it.  It made me sad for a moment.  I wish I'd picked more wisely when I married but I gave my dick two votes and my brain one (none?). I know this is true because I started trying to think of things that my wife and I have in common or what we used to do that made me fall in love with her.  After much pondrance I determined all we really did before we got married was fuck and who doesn't like that!  That's where I went wrong though and why I feel strongly opposed to sex before marriage.  Sex before marriage is how good people get trapped in shitty relationships.  You delude yourself into thinking you like someone and enjoy being with them but really all you like is sex.  Lesson learned.  So if you like good Asian food, getting caught in the rain, if you don't mind yoga, if you have half a brain.... 

The irony of that song....and of my life.  Is my wife hates that song.  I kinda like it, specifically I like the message, because the point is the dude loves his wife and he doesn't even realize it because he doesn't take the time to get to know her.  I always felt that could be very true of life for many people.