The girl who cried "Sick!"

I feel kinda bad. My wife is like the girl who cried sick. She's always telling me she's sick, something is wrong and on and on.  Usually she's not actually she's just mentally not well and it makes her feel physically unwell.  It's usually psychosomatic.   So last night she kept waking me up telling me she was freezing and sweating and I didn't wake up completely but I wasn't very sympathetic because is' not unusual she wakes me up to tell me she doesn't feel well.  Well, today she really was sick.  She was chilled really bad and in soaked t-shirt from sweating.  It made me feel bad and sad.  Bad that I didn't take her more seriously and get up and do something.  Sad because I am with someone who has wore me out with hearing "I'm sick" to the point I don't react like I normally would to someone in need.  I feel like such a worthless husband being so unhappy with her and bitching all the time.  I want to love her but she makes it so freakin hard to love her.