Saturday, January 9, 2016

Facebook Dama

I don't do Facebook because I don't really like drama.  I have an alias account I use to keep in contact with a fist full of people that are important to me and that's it.  I don't read the bullshit or get into the arguments.  I have no desire, it gets me on edge.  I am a very too-myself and peaceful person.  My wife is not.  I really dislike it when she brings the Facebook drama right to me and spoon feeds it to me.  I can't tell her I dislike it though because it's some of the very little communication we have and I am trying to foster better communication and being able to share anything.  The problem is  we don't like the same things!  How is it I couldn't see past my dick to realize we were so different.  She gives me daily highlights of who said what on Facebook and her responses.  At the end of my daily Facebook update tonight I told her "that sounds like a lot of drama, maybe you should just quit Facebook"  she said "ohh no!  I enjoy being able to tell people what I think." That's kinda an interesting statement to me.  Why do you enjoy telling people what you think?  I don't enjoy telling people what I think unless they ask what I think.  I don't need to broadcast my thoughts.  I broadcast to some extent on this blog, but I know my audience is very small and limited and furthermore it's more about just venting and throwing ideas than trying to prove I'm right, or my cause is the right cause to be behind etc.  It is what it is though.  I can either listen or not, it's all about how bad I want to foster communication with her.  

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