Who do you rely on?

Last week I realized that I rely on my mother for a lot of things still.  My wife gets so mad from time to time because I ask mom to help me.  I had a moment of clarity though.  I needed someone to deposit money in my checking account because I can't leave work and I don't have a bank close to where I work.  So I called my wife and telling her what I needed she just flat said no.  She said no because it was inconvenient.  She had hours before her next required activity.  My mother is a busy woman that owns a business and helps a lot of people achieve what needs done not just within her family but friends as well.  So I asked mom and she didn't hesitate to say yes.  It took us a little longer to work out logistics because it was far more inconvenient for her than for my wife but we worked it out and got things done.  It was in that moment I realized I rely on my wife for nothing.  She's so unreliable I don't ever expect a thing from her.  Matter of fact, I was given the opportunity to make a position for her as an employee and I told my boss I'd never hire her. That's a sad thought.