Perfecting being alone

So I have been thinking about how people always want to be involved in a relationship of some sort. Why are we so scared to be alone? Before one relationship is terminated another is often springing up.  Is it natural course of life or is it fear of aloneness.  Interestingly enough, I have considered when one is best qualified to be in a relationship, and that is when you are comfortable being alone.  The fact is we innately try to create our identity within someone else.  Funny thing is "someone else" tries to find their identity in us.  This is interesting because that means that as a couple you are completely void of any substance. You have an empty, hollow, meaningless relationship.  Until you create your own identity and you are happy and satisfied with that you cannot partake in a meaningful relationship because a meaningful relationship should augment your persona with someone who has their own unique and secure identity. So do not fear being alone, perfect being alone.  Aspire to a fulfilling identity before you try to involve yourself with another person.  You will be glad you did and your relationship will flourish because of it.